Zommy seriously sized up Elisa from top to bottom, “Do you think you married a rich man, so you disregarded the rules and discipline and can do as you wished at work? Or do you think that you are only in Rui Xin Hospital for a period of time, and that a bad performance here will not affect your future evaluation of titles and promotions?”
“I didn’t think of it that way.”
“Then what do you mean by what you did today? You not only affected your own work progress, but also the progress of other colleagues, and this is the way you have always acted?”
“I’m sorry for what happened today, I shouldn’t take my husband take the stroll with me.” Elisa apologized.
She had indeed done something wrong in this matter.
“Only this matter?” Zommy’s face still didn’t become much better.
Elisa said sincerely, “Please point out any other areas that I am not aware of at the moment.”
“You did not handle the relationship with the patient well, bringing trouble and public opinion storm to the hospital; before the storm subsided, you brought your lover into the hospital and let him influence other colleagues. Do you think you did the right thing?”
“Do you think I should treat patients with a different attitude?” Elisa asked uncertainly.
Zommy looked at Elisa with an indifferent expression, “You comprehend it yourself.”
“Zommy, if you have an opinion about my work, I am very willing to listen. But how inappropriate it is for you to talk halfway, and then stop talking. If you don’t make it clear, what if I comprehend the wrong direction myself? When the time comes, you still have to redirect me.”
“This is your attitude in the face of critical?” Zommy was a bit dissatisfied with Elisa’s rhetorical
“You are my senior, of course I would like to hear your opinion.”
“Elisa, you have disappointed me.”
Elisa’s heart clogged a bit at her words, she thought about her attitude and said sincerely, “Professor Zommy, I’m sorry for making you uncomfortable, I have some responsibility. You are willing to point it out, I am grateful to you. I took my loved one on rounds, and it’s true that I didn’t do a good job. In terms of getting along with patients, I appreciate your manner and proportion, and the way you feel when you talk to patients, both of which I aspire to. It may be that we have different personalities that cause our differences. I’ve thought about it, but I still don’t really want to change.”
“Good.” Zommy said in a cold voice and walked out of the office with the cup.
Elisa slapped her forehead, thinking that she had caused trouble again.
What she just said was indeed her true thoughts.
Zommy’s meticulous work attitude was something she really appreciated and admired.
Zommy’s dealings with patients are like a hotel concierge, polite and considerate, but impersonal.
Her own relationship with the patient is more like that of a stall owner and a customer, hot and lively.
She doesn’t think Zommy’s statement is wrong, but she doesn’t think her way is wrong either.
People with different personalities treat the same thing differently and respond in different ways.
Thinking about this, Elisa took her phone and sent a message to the director.
The director almost replied her back, “What are you doing again? You go to someone else’s hospital, can’t you be good?”
Elisa sent a frustrated expression.
Director: “Hurry up, I’m traveling with my wife, don’t disturb me!”
“You have been travelling for so long.”
“I still have to report to you?”
“No, no, you and your wife can do whatever you like.” Elisa quickly talked over the conversation she had with Zommy just now.
After saying that, she took her bag and went to the restaurant near the hospital to eat.
Carrying her dinner plate and sitting by the window, she opened her phone and found that the director had sent a bunch of voice messages.
She had a feeling that she was going to be scolded.
So, taking out the earbuds from the bag, she listened.
“Elisa, do you think everyone is like me? Going against Zommy, are you tired of living?!”
“Whatever she says, you listen.”
“Would it kill you to play dumb for a while? At this time you refute her words, does it look like you are particularly smart? Do you have a high IQ? When she kills you later, don’t ask me to save you!”
“I had a hard time getting in touch with her to let her grind your dog’s temper. The more you file, the braver you get. Elisa, you really make me admire!”
…
After listening to the director’s words, Elisa’s heart actually rose with a weird sense of comfort.
She hatefully took a few bites of rice and realized that she might have a tendency to be abused.
She still likes to get along with people like the director, even though he often scolds her, she can still feel his strong care and love for her.
Isn’t it good to yell and spew out what you’re upset about?
You have to say half and leave half to look like you are particularly profound?
Elisa feels that she is a bit to Zommy to the petty thought.
The fact that Zommy’s speaking style is not the one she appreciates does not negate Zommy’s excellence in other areas.
The first thing you need to do is to get the information from the director.
The director: “Elisa, you are bold? How dare you not return my messages!”
Elisa swallowed her meal and said vaguely, “Lion Tiger, I’m having lunch. Tell me, how should I get along with Zommy? I don’t think I’m compatible with her.”
“Who have you ever been at peace with?”
“Am I that bad?” Elisa choked on the block.
“Forget it, I won’t hit you anymore. Little comrade Elisa, you should know that not everyone can put up with their subordinates’ offenses against them. I can put up with your temper, you can put up with Annies stammering nature, it doesn’t mean that other people can put up with it. People are not related to you, is it necessary to put up with your disobedience?”
“I understand the reasoning, I actually said it quite euphemistically.”
“Euphemistic or not is another story. If you want to have good comments and scores during the regulation training, you just Zommy say anything, you listen to anything, dissatisfaction also hold in.”
“She said wrong, I also do not point out?”
“Elisa , how do you know that she is not right? Are you more experienced than her, or more skilled than her, or have you lived to her age? You are not as good as she is, so where do you get the confidence that she is not right? She is a few dozen years older than you, you know that it is wrong, she does not know? Do you have a higher IQ than her, or a higher emotional quotient?”
Elisa was silent.
The director waited for a while, did not see Elisa say anything, sent another message over, “Little comrade, the most important lesson you go to training is to learn to appreciate the different personalities of seniors, and can get along with them. A person’s skills can be very superb, but if you can’t learn to get along with the people around you, she will not go far. Zommy can go to the current position, not she relies on an ice face cold out. Rui Xin Hospital’s senior management is not stupid, will not let a specialist who can’t even do basic socializing be so famous, promoting out is to smash the signboard.”
“I was wrong.”
“If you’re wrong, change, it’s no big deal.”
“Thank you.”